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Ring Doorbell footage posted on TikTok captured two emotional moments in one family’s life.

The footage captures the greatest joy and deepest sorrow that Jessie and Nate, both 32, have experienced during their journey as parents to their stillborn baby Matthew. They captioned the video: “We watch this footage often. So thankful we were able to capture these moments.”

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On Dec. 23, two days after Matthew was due, the Naples, Fla., couple asked Jesse’s sister and brother-in-law to be their child’s godparents, and the couple was “honored” to be chosen, Jesse said Newsweek.

In the first part of the TikTok video, the camera footage shows Jessie’s sister coming out of the house singing “Godfathers!” Her husband, pointing to the doormat, says, “There were definitely good vibes in there.”

The second part, filmed weeks later, shows a starkly different scene with Matthew’s godparents carrying his urn as they return to the house.

Jessie’s water broke on Christmas Eve, but what should have been the happiest moment in the parents-to-be’s lives turned into a nightmare.

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Hospital staff were unable to detect Matthew’s heartbeat, and an ultrasound confirmed he had died.

“Our world came crashing down as we struggled with the unimaginable loss, even though I continued to give birth,” Jessie said.

After 24 hours, Matthew Roger was born at 8:48 am on Christmas Day.

“He was perfect in every physical sense – 10 fingers, 10 toes and a head full of thick, curly brown hair,” Nate said.

“His 9-pound, 5-ounce frame and 22.5-inch length epitomized his powerful presence, [but] despite his perfection, he did not draw breath,” he continued.

The couple spent Christmas Day sharing precious moments with their baby, dressed in a white satin dress and knitted white hat.

Family members, including grandparents, aunts and uncles, gathered around Jesse and Nate to mourn the loss of Matthew.

“We sang to him and held him and kissed his little fingers and forehead,” Jessie said.

She continued: “Nate and I said a final prayer over him before saying our final goodbyes as they prepared him for the funeral home.

“Our nurse compassionately covered his crib with a clean white sheet and wheeled him away, marking the most difficult moment of our lives.”

Jessie and Nate’s TikTok video received more than 4 million views and hundreds of users left comments to share the couple’s grief.

“You have my thoughts,” wrote one user who said she lost her baby at 20 weeks.

“The way she hugged him [urn] they really were the right two to be god parents,” said another.

Other users noticed the absence of the “Good Vibes” doormat in the second half of the video, and Jessie said in the comments section that she asked Nate to throw it away when they got home.

“Our family and community rallied around us, organizing a GoFundMe and a meal train and offering heartfelt support,” the couple said Newsweek.

“We had a touching memorial service, which was attended by nearly 300 people [and] Matthew’s best men were in charge of the driving [him] home in his cute little urn after the service,” they continued.

Jessie and Nate said sharing their grief made them realize how important it is to talk openly about stillbirths, and they’ve since created Mattie’s Corner — a special spot in their backyard that has a king palm tree and a bench — where they can find comfort by they remember their son

The couple also founded a private stillbirth support group of the same name.

Matty’s Corner “provides comfort for parents who have experienced the profound loss of a child due to stillbirth, offering a sanctuary where they can gather, grieve and openly share memories of their babies,” Nate said.

The couple’s doorbell camera captured love and loss, and as they reflect on their journey, they appreciate those who were there to support them.

They said: “Their presence brought us comfort during our darkest days, reminding us that Matthew Roger’s short life left an undeniable mark on all who knew him and that we will see him again one day with our heavenly Father.

“As we navigate life without Matthew physically by our side, we find strength in preserving his legacy and advocating for greater awareness and support for families affected by stillbirth.”